Creating your reality, or defined by someone else’s?

If you were creating your reality what would you choose?

If you were choosing your reality, beyond the definitions and the limitations of this reality what would you like to have, be and do?

We are conditioned to look through definition in this reality. This is what it means to be a daughter, son, a good parent, a bad parent etc. When we define ourselves as something, for example, a good mum then we take on all the definitions of what a good mum is. Definitions from society, our parents, our peers, ourselves, the worldview of a ‘good mum’.

How many definitions are you using to play out the patterns you are choosing?

Sometimes its great to get an awareness, of what could be occurring in your life. Sometimes, I stop and ask myself, am I catering or filling a need or obligation, or am I doing this from choice? I realized choice makes me get happier, need or obligation made me feel crunchy and contracted.

Asking questions can open up your awareness to the multitude of possibilities that are available to create the life your way.

Are you choosing this reality or yours?

What would you choose if nothing could limit you?

What would it take for you to give yourself permission to have all that you desire?

What would it be like to lovingly and powerfully occupy and be in all of your space as you fully own your reality?

What would it be like to make choices which align with who and what you desire in moving forward?

A conscious choice, an experiment with love

Recently, I decided to make a conscious choice… in each moment to be in the energy of love.

Be in the flow of love.

Wow, so much cool stuff showed up – my life flowed, synchronicities occurred and opportunities were offered… I love this vibe!!

When stuff showed up, that I didn’t prefer, I just made a choice to add love and new possibilities occurred – it changed my perspective.

It’s a matter of thinking of something you love and directing it towards something else. This is how you can do it – Think of something you love! It could be your favourite pet, your partner, the beach, your children, having a bath, painting or exercising – whatever rocks your boat. Then imagine you are doing that, imagine how you feel, what you sense, how your body feels, what do you see, what do you taste. Get that feeling and then say to yourself – I love, I love, I love. Really get the sense of that inside you. It could take some practice as often we are operating from lower vibes such as anger, fear and survival energy.

Keep going, it can be fun, if you choose!

Once you feel the love energy in your body, imagine projecting that love energy into your day and what you are doing now. Think I love, I love, I love. You can think of your car and feel so much gratitude and love for it keeping you safe and getting to where you need to go. You can think of being stuck in traffic on the way to work and think I love, I love, I love.

This is so cool, I get to choose how I feel about this. Seriously it works, and it’s just a choice.

Anytime I feel a sneaky fear feeling coming up at any given moment, I choose to turn toward the energy of love, and have that energy guide my actions. I can feel that it is becoming my natural state.

Anytime you feel low vibe energy, go back to imagining your scene of love and say to yourself I love, I love, I love.
This is what has happened for me:

  • My son received free doctor treatment that usually costs around $500;
  • I attended an appointment with my son in a place I have never been before. The receptionist came out and greeted me with such joy. It turned out that she was a former client who I helped begin her healing journey. She told me she couldn’t find the words to express how grateful to have met me and how it changed her life;
  • I went for an interview, and within an hour I was offered the job; and
  • My younger son opens my car door for me so I can get out and closes it behind me – I know it’s the little things right!

Those are just a few of the lovely things that have occurred.

Love gets reflected right on back at you!